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Okay guys, I think I need a little help.

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Guest


Guest

My rage is beginning to get FAR out of control. I've tried everything to stop it, but it's much like a multi-headed hydra, in the sense that for ever time I seem to lop off a head from it, 2 more appear. I can't beat it; no matter how hard I try.

I guess an even better way to make it into a image is by comparing it to a Driver's Ed type car set in a neutral, and pushed down a hill, that just keeps rolling until it gets faster and faster, and it endangers things that I like, such as friendship. I need help, I really do. My brakes are broken, and it's just going to keep going and going until I hit another flat area, but eventually, it just slowly rolls until it hits another hill where it keeps going in going.

If I'm in a party with you, I need somebody to speak up when I get too out of control. The occasional, "That guy is a faggot", or "God Damnit", and such are okay, because I usually am still feeling good, but that's how I blow off steam so I don't get mad. But when I get to the point where I focus on score and self destruction, just tell me, "Stop Raging" "You're Raging" "Calm Down" etc. I noticed that when somebody points it out, I realize what I'm doing, and I calm down for a bit unless something sets me off again, but it really helps. I find it hard to disobey what somebody else says, and it helps me snap out of it.

If you want to help, thank you, thank you, thank you, oo thank you. If not, that's alright, I don't blame you for wanting to get involved, because it often gets really ugly when I finally snap and get really mad for the day, as far as when I self destruct for a while.

DrunkenJawas

DrunkenJawas

As I am not one to say do this and it will work 100 percent this would be hard for me to explain, especially one who is a stranger to the community.

May I suggest that you think of the rage as beneath you. If you run into an lolaban user, think to yourself, "I'm good enough that I do not need that gun to win that game." If someone in real life is out to get you tell yourself, "I am better than them, they are after me because it makes them feel good but I am better than them."

Lastly I could suggest that if you get mad, don't stew on it. Come on the board or talk to one of your great friends on Xbox live and let it off your chest. They are here to help you.

Guest


Guest

Yeah, it's kind of a combo between real life frustrations and games. I don't like completely opening up to people about what they are, but I do tell some of them.

I'll have to try thinking of them as underneath me; I kind of already do, but I guess I'll have to mentally reinforce it.

I yell alot, but I guess that really isn't getting things off of my chest, as opposed to a good conversation. I've just gotten to the point where I can rage quit for the day in less than 60 seconds.

DrunkenJawas

DrunkenJawas

I wish you the best of luck.

When you yell, it doesn't make you feel better, it in fact makes it worse. So talk to someone if you cannot think of them beneath you. It will help.

Also the fact that I am a complete stranger doesn't help at all.

Guest


Guest

Hello DrBob!!! hahaha but now to the point, If you join a party with me I'll help you not rage. I NEVER rage at video games, they are meant to be played for fun, not to raise your blood pressure. It's just a game, if something isn't going your way does that really make a difference in your life or a major impact in the game? No, no it doesn't. Just think about that whenever something gets you angry, just think, it's just a game.

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

You call that Rage son i have you beat

I dont really mind you Raging its When Pickles and them start Screaming into the Mic that i have a Problem

Seriously Guys Raging in Words=Okay

Primal Screams Drowning Out the Game Blowing my Eardrums and making me not hear anyone else=Frost will stab you in the fuckin Head

Also it might not have Been Pickles might have been Pancakes but i know theyre were 2 of them Doing it and they Pissed off me and Iceman

Guest


Guest

I laugh when people rage, or yell or anything haha. I haven't experienced a screamer yet though.

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

They werent Rage Screaming it was just Obnoxious Laugh Screaming

Guest


Guest

Oh... I HATE THAT!!! But what I hate the most is when your talking and someone interrupts what your saying EVERY TIME...

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

I know everytime i go to Talk i have to do the Stop start thing lol

I dont mind them interrupting to relay enemy positions though

Guest


Guest

I don't mind that either, but when I'm trying to say something important and they just talk over me and then they die and rage... That pisses me off

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

Whats even worse is when they Ignore the fact you just told them theres a Tank around the Corner they Run around the Corner Die,Tell the Party and everyone acts like its some kind of big Discovery

Guest


Guest

I know, that makes me want to just leave them and let them die. And when you tell them that you just said that they ignore you, thats basically just a slap in the face

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

No its just Facepalm worthy lol Very Happy

Its not like im hard to understand with my Kiwi Accent Very Happy

Guest


Guest

I've never heard your accent before so I have no clue what it sounds like

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

Just look up Frostbyrn Singing on Youtube

Guest


Guest

I've already seen that video a couple of times... Very Happy

And I can't really hear an accent

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

Really too the Untrained ear i usually come off as English or Australian

Guest


Guest

Oh, well I didn't really notice it. hmmmmmmmm

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

You must be Deaf compared to Americans i sound Way different

Guest


Guest

I live in Minnesota though, and Minnesotans have a messed up accent so thats probably why I can't hear it cause it sounds normal haha. But luckily I dont have a Minnasota accent Smile

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

What next you wont be able to tell someone from Spain and Mexico Apart?

Guest


Guest

Don't make fun of my adorably awesome hearing

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

You mean your Nationality Confused Ears?

Guest


Guest

I mean I love you Frost.

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

I dont care how you feel about me i aint Cruisin in your Vodnik no matter how much Free Candy you offer me

Guest


Guest

I HATE THE WORD AINT!!! and what if I have brownies too?

ALargeEffinFry

ALargeEffinFry

I hate being ignored.

Me-Hey guys be careful, there's a good sqaud over there in thatforest.
*party member dies to said sqaud*What the hell, guys there's a squad over there.
Me-*sigh* facepalm.

Guest


Guest

xsilentshooterx wrote:I hate being ignored.

Me-Hey guys be careful, there's a good sqaud over there in thatforest.
*party member dies to said sqaud*What the hell, guys there's a squad over there.
Me-*sigh* facepalm.

Yes, this very much this, lol.

Thanks for the advice though, I'll try calming down....yet again. : / Maybe one of these days I'll be successful.

DRGN LRD 1213

DRGN LRD 1213

So did I see right? Your done with BC2? Moving on to Reach. I am really thinking about getting Reach but still just a little hesitant,.

Guest


Guest

BC2 has done me more wrong than any other videogame I've ever played:

Lagged
Broken Knife
Awful Hit Detection
Dogtags
Revive Invincibility for other players but not me
Vehicle whores
Overpowered Vehicles for the most part
Overpowered Weapons everywhere
The worst teammates I have EVER seen; I thought nobody could be worse than my CoD4 teammates, but i was wrong

Between MW2 and BC2, I'm debating whether I even want to renew my membership to LIVE.

MEGA MILK

MEGA MILK

I hate being ignored.

Me-Hey guys be careful, there's a good sqaud over there in thatforest.
*party member dies to said sqaud*What the hell, guys there's a squad over there.
Me-*sigh* facepalm.


I zone out sometimes. Razz

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