I Miss Sym!#!%*

Metalzoic wrote:Yeah, she is a total fucking moron is what she is.

Captain Pirate Pineapple wrote:You know, it's thread's like this that I love to come back to after a weekend away with the lady.

Ars Diaboli wrote:Oh right, that British guy. Metal should be nice to his son in law, but I guess it's hard for a parent.

Pariah wrote:
Kaitlynn, so hows life been now that he's gone?

Kaitlynn wrote:

Pariah wrote:
Kaitlynn, so hows life been now that he's gone?

Quieter. Calmer. I don't feel like I'm on the verge of some mental breakdown because I'm not stressed out anymore about bills getting paid or things getting done in general.

So...Fantastic!

Kaitlynn wrote:

Pariah wrote:
Kaitlynn, so hows life been now that he's gone?

Quieter. Calmer. I don't feel like I'm on the verge of some mental breakdown because I'm not stressed out anymore about bills getting paid or things getting done in general.

So...Fantastic!

Metalzoic wrote:

Ars Diaboli wrote:Oh right, that British guy. Metal should be nice to his son in law, but I guess it's hard for a parent.

Yeah, that's all part of it.
She's banned from the scumbag hippie stoner loser British dude. At least until she's 18 and moves out. I warned him to have zero contact with here even if she contacts him first. If he does we'll file a restraining order or criminal charges if he pisses me off.

Her dad just wants to skip all that and go straight to pressing statutory rape charges which I'm all for, but her mom doesn't want to do.

Captain Pirate Pineapple wrote:I almost married once. Never did, which led to the rest of my "fun" relationships. I think I've found a good one this time, so I'll keep this one around for awhile.

Kaitlynn wrote:I have to say, I find this whole thread amusing for the obvious reasons and others.

Anyway, let me start out by saying Sym is a DRAMA QUEEN! I don't think I should have to point that out to you all, but its true.

Metalzoic wrote:How long were they married?
A couple years?

...I think they were together for quite awhile before that though.

We were married short of two year and together for five years.

Moving on.

Frostbyrn wrote:I dont know when did he quit the first time because that was because of "Wedding Pressures"

"Wedding Pressures"? Please, he had 3 thing to do. Decide the color of his tux, what beer he wanted, and to show up.

I handled everything else. Not sure what he told you all.

Frostbyrn wrote:Yeah I do not believe you could miss the Sym Drama with the sheer amount of it that guy attracted

Ah yes, the amount of drama he attracted, wait scratch that, the amount of drama he created.

Let me give you a little insight as how Sym really was, because you only saw shades of it. If I had know he was remotely like this, never would have married him.

For starters, he's a compulsive liar. If I took the time to go through posts on here, I could find at least 5 - 7 lies he's told you all. Not that it really matters, but thats just how low his self-esteem is that he feels the need to lie to impress people. Which is still apparent on his Facebook page...says he works at TMobile - he hasn't worked there in at least 3 years and they won't rehire him. Blacklisted!

Elitist! No one could have missed this. It wasn't just in music and computers, but pretty much anything he simply didn't like. You can only imagine how generally annoying this got (would with anyone, not just him). But, from this I would often have to hear criticisms about my own interests that he didn't like or understand.

After much thought, I've come to the conclusion that he may have sociopathic tendencies. Sure, started out sweet as a f-cking flower when we started dating, *thought* he was honest (but oh the lies I uncovered) and then at time having no concern for my welfare both mentally and physically.
I'm sure most of you are aware that he has/d his medical marijuana card. In order to get this card, he drained our savings to pay for it. Its not cheap. Even though he had been working the previous 4 months before having to turn in paperwork/payment, he didn't save a dime to help and none of that money went to anything other than rent. This was also in between his extended time of unemployment when I was paying for nearly everything. It was also because of his actions that I had to apply for government assistance to make ends meet. Sym felt he couldn't work because of his OCD/depression, but never sought help. Last year he decided he could go to school but not work, or even work part time while in school.

My flaws were open season to him, he'd pick at me for the smallest things.He would often accuse me of trying to make him feel bad about himself, when all I ever told him to do was get some help because he may actually feel better (imagine that!) and he was positive that all I wanted was money. Issues like this would escalate especially when he had been drinking, and despite his claims of drinking because he likes the taste (which I don't doubt), he did it to get drunk - as in coping mechanism drunk. He was not a fun drunk either, he was nasty, confrontational, and at times physical. Not only towards other people but towards me (and a few of the walls in the apartment).
Even though he would admit there was an issue he would fail to do anything about it. Clearly didn't want help, doesn't think he needs help. This also applies to his depression and OCD issues.

Obviously, after two years of this 'feel-sorry-for-me-but-I-won't-do-anything-to-help-myself' bullsh-t. I was done. Had considered it a lot before, tried to stick it out, find a way to make it work. But, nope. He wouldn't do a damn thing on his end. It was also by this point I realized I was over the relationship myself.

I'm not saying I was a saint in the whole thing, there were things I said and did that I probably shouldn't have. But, for leaving, can you blame me?

Any questions?


TL;DR - Sym is an ass  

Ars Diaboli wrote:

Frostbyrn wrote:

Ars Diaboli wrote:

Kaitlynn wrote:I had to apply for government assistance to make ends meet

Whoa whoa, wait a second there. You guys can get help from the government in the U.S.? Fuck me, it's a damn paradise over there. If only I could stand the food you have...

Come to NZ

I know one Mexican place in Auckland and it is run by Indians

Im not sure Burritos are supposed to contain rice but whatever

I actually do want to visit one day. Maybe after South America, Asia, and oriental and northern Europe. And before Australia. Must leave Australia for last, in case I get killed by something.

Ars Diaboli wrote:

Kaitlynn wrote:I had to apply for government assistance to make ends meet

Whoa whoa, wait a second there. You guys can get help from the government in the U.S.? Fuck me, it's a damn paradise over there. If only I could stand the food you have...

menacinglemon wrote:Only post I have ever read that was long. Glad I did. Glad to hear life is better too.

HydrasBreath ♜ wrote:I can kind of sympathize with my last relationship. We weren't married or anything but when it was over I don't think I've been happier that a relationship ended. Total weight lifted from my shoulders. Things have been pretty good since.

Kaitlynn wrote:

menacinglemon wrote:Only post I have ever read that was long. Glad I did. Glad to hear life is better too.

I could've made it longer, but I know how some of you aren't really 'readers'.

Pariah wrote:
I'm assuming you walked in on them doing it.

Kaitlynn wrote:I have to say, I find this whole thread amusing for the obvious reasons and others.

Anyway, let me start out by saying Sym is a DRAMA QUEEN! I don't think I should have to point that out to you all, but its true.

Metalzoic wrote:How long were they married?
A couple years?

...I think they were together for quite awhile before that though.

We were married short of two year and together for five years.

Moving on.

Frostbyrn wrote:I dont know when did he quit the first time because that was because of "Wedding Pressures"

"Wedding Pressures"? Please, he had 3 thing to do. Decide the color of his tux, what beer he wanted, and to show up.

I handled everything else. Not sure what he told you all.

Frostbyrn wrote:Yeah I do not believe you could miss the Sym Drama with the sheer amount of it that guy attracted

Ah yes, the amount of drama he attracted, wait scratch that, the amount of drama he created.

Let me give you a little insight as how Sym really was, because you only saw shades of it. If I had know he was remotely like this, never would have married him.

For starters, he's a compulsive liar. If I took the time to go through posts on here, I could find at least 5 - 7 lies he's told you all. Not that it really matters, but thats just how low his self-esteem is that he feels the need to lie to impress people. Which is still apparent on his Facebook page...says he works at TMobile - he hasn't worked there in at least 3 years and they won't rehire him. Blacklisted!

Elitist! No one could have missed this. It wasn't just in music and computers, but pretty much anything he simply didn't like. You can only imagine how generally annoying this got (would with anyone, not just him). But, from this I would often have to hear criticisms about my own interests that he didn't like or understand.

After much thought, I've come to the conclusion that he may have sociopathic tendencies. Sure, started out sweet as a f-cking flower when we started dating, *thought* he was honest (but oh the lies I uncovered) and then at time having no concern for my welfare both mentally and physically.
I'm sure most of you are aware that he has/d his medical marijuana card. In order to get this card, he drained our savings to pay for it. Its not cheap. Even though he had been working the previous 4 months before having to turn in paperwork/payment, he didn't save a dime to help and none of that money went to anything other than rent. This was also in between his extended time of unemployment when I was paying for nearly everything. It was also because of his actions that I had to apply for government assistance to make ends meet. Sym felt he couldn't work because of his OCD/depression, but never sought help. Last year he decided he could go to school but not work, or even work part time while in school.

My flaws were open season to him, he'd pick at me for the smallest things.He would often accuse me of trying to make him feel bad about himself, when all I ever told him to do was get some help because he may actually feel better (imagine that!) and he was positive that all I wanted was money. Issues like this would escalate especially when he had been drinking, and despite his claims of drinking because he likes the taste (which I don't doubt), he did it to get drunk - as in coping mechanism drunk. He was not a fun drunk either, he was nasty, confrontational, and at times physical. Not only towards other people but towards me (and a few of the walls in the apartment).
Even though he would admit there was an issue he would fail to do anything about it. Clearly didn't want help, doesn't think he needs help. This also applies to his depression and OCD issues.

Obviously, after two years of this 'feel-sorry-for-me-but-I-won't-do-anything-to-help-myself' bullsh-t. I was done. Had considered it a lot before, tried to stick it out, find a way to make it work. But, nope. He wouldn't do a damn thing on his end. It was also by this point I realized I was over the relationship myself.

I'm not saying I was a saint in the whole thing, there were things I said and did that I probably shouldn't have. But, for leaving, can you blame me?

Any questions?


TL;DR - Sym is an ass  

MEGA MILK wrote:And not even that good at Battlefield.

MEGA MILK wrote:And not even that good at Battlefield.

The Spanish Inquisition wrote:I admit. Horrible person I am. I got a little smile while reading your post Miss-Not-So-Sym-Anymore, but then it got soured at the whole thing where he got physical when he drank. I'm sorry for that.

Kaitlynn wrote:

MEGA MILK wrote:And not even that good at Battlefield.

Don't get me started on that rage-fest...can't tell you how many times I just should've unplugged the comp mid-game play because of his bitching

Hah what kind of loser gets irrationally angry at an FPS game

<_<

>_>

~slide

Frostbyrn wrote:

Kaitlynn wrote:

MEGA MILK wrote:And not even that good at Battlefield.

Don't get me started on that rage-fest...can't tell you how many times I just should've unplugged the comp mid-game play because of his bitching

Hah what kind of loser gets irrationally angry at an FPS game

<_<

>_>

~slide

Metalzoic wrote:

Frostbyrn wrote:

Kaitlynn wrote:

MEGA MILK wrote:And not even that good at Battlefield.

Don't get me started on that rage-fest...can't tell you how many times I just should've unplugged the comp mid-game play because of his bitching

Hah what kind of loser gets irrationally angry at an FPS game

<_<

>_>

~slide

Errr... No doubt.
The amount of raging that battlefield causes me is pretty embarrassing.

Well you do have to deal with the intellectual dregs of society

Also one of the rage quitting of the SeC was due to C4 UAV bombing if I remember

We were just bombing all the tanks but he took it personally because he was dumb enough to keep hopping in them

Captain Pirate Pineapple wrote:Ah C4 UAV's and ATV's. Those were the fun days of Battlefield.

HydrasBreath ♜ wrote:

Captain Pirate Pineapple wrote:Ah C4 UAV's and ATV's. Those were the fun days of Battlefield.

Yeah it was fucking hilarious doing that and just rolling over teams. I wasn't with you guys then though. I was running with some different people from GFAQS.

Epyk MD wrote:

HydrasBreath ♜ wrote:

Captain Pirate Pineapple wrote:Ah C4 UAV's and ATV's. Those were the fun days of Battlefield.

Yeah it was fucking hilarious doing that and just rolling over teams. I wasn't with you guys then though. I was running with some different people from GFAQS.

im quite offended.

Ante wrote:i vote we ip ban him from the site

I vote we IP ban all Canada just to be safe

Epyk MD wrote:

HydrasBreath ♜ wrote:

Captain Pirate Pineapple wrote:Ah C4 UAV's and ATV's. Those were the fun days of Battlefield.

Yeah it was fucking hilarious doing that and just rolling over teams. I wasn't with you guys then though. I was running with some different people from GFAQS.

im quite offended.

chunckylover53 wrote:You're just the town whore aren't you hydra?

No thats your Mum!

Dropped Da Soap wrote:Leave his mum out of this!

Captain Pirate Pineapple wrote:

Dropped Da Soap wrote:Leave his mum out of this!

You'd rather his dad?

Speaking of Whores

Frostbyrn wrote:

Captain Pirate Pineapple wrote:

Dropped Da Soap wrote:Leave his mum out of this!

You'd rather his dad?

Speaking of Whores

chunckylover53 wrote:You're just the town whore aren't you hydra?