Think my gf might break up with me.

but good advice. For the record, I don't find that heartless and cruel at all. I mean, she was kinddddddddda asking for it XD

the way she was acting she was defiantly asking for it

Its one am, I'm not reading anything.

Besides, I'm Pariah, I don't have to make sense, OR BE ON TIME. I make my own timing

*swaggers out of topic*

does anyone every make sense around here?

yup, yup. for sure.

and woulda deserved it. honestly, I have no sympathy for girls who act like that. It's just wrong. On like, a number of levels. It's being manipulative, playing mindgames, hard-to-get, whatever you want to call it. just wrong.

so yeah, she would deserved a pariah-style break-off XD

yea man...it hurts...but......you'll be alright....you deserve better than her.There's plenty of good chicks out there

Pariah wrote:Its one am, I'm not reading anything.

Besides, I'm Pariah, I don't have to make sense, OR BE ON TIME. I make my own timing

*swaggers out of topic*

he's just trying to cover for the fact that he posted good but useless advice XD

zing

Growlstreak wrote:

Pariah wrote:Its one am, I'm not reading anything.

Besides, I'm Pariah, I don't have to make sense, OR BE ON TIME. I make my own timing

*swaggers out of topic*

he's just trying to cover for the fact that he posted perfect but ill-timed advice XD

fixed that for you sweetie.

oh why thank you. my keyboard hasnt been acting right recently >.<

or has it.....

shut up duan.

<.< *le looks at duan*

>.> *le looks at pariah*

O______________________________O

Pariah wrote:shut up duan.

or keep speaking.....

Duan, thats started cropping up in normal conversation at this point.

that is pretty lolz

i dont get it O________O how is that face......sexual?

think about it

............i still dont get it............

move the left circle

...oh.

lol

Wow. I passed out and I wasn't even tired. Fell asleep with my giant ass down comforter all bunched up over my head, and just woke up in a puddle of sweat.

Master Shake wrote:Wow. I passed out and I wasn't even tired. Fell asleep with my giant ass down comforter all bunched up over my head, and just woke up in a puddle of sweat.

What a depressing picture. I suggest you play masturbate, laugh at a few racist jokes, and play some vidya.

Honestly, I don't feel like doing anything.

Its 2 am here, I aint tired, but I dont feel liek doing anything. I want to watch Doctor Who, but she was the one who got me into it.
I havent even touched my Xbox at all today and don't feel the need to.

Sorry to hear about your troubles soap...I definitely feel you man I'm going though the same thing myself. It took me till this week to be able to want to do much of anything...it'll get better with time man. The first few days are the worst...after that you should start to feel better slowly but surely.

Time heals all wounds

For what she did, how she went about things, she wasn't worth it. Know that's not exactly what you want to hear/read, but it's true. A true person who has feelings for you would have handled the situation a lot better. From what I have read though, you seem to have handled it correctly.

All I know is it couldn't have come at a worse time

Right now is always the worse time man. Things that happened before never seem as bad...... Hence the time and the wound healing as previously stated.

You have my sympathies though. I wish I had more to offer.

No. You have no idea. It could NOT have happened at a worse time.

First off my family is falling apart due to fighting. And the family that hasn't turned their backs on us have all moved out of state.
My mom is getting remarried and the guys family is basically being forced into that hole where my real family was months before the fighting began. Which is basically seperating me and my mom.

Then theres a lot of other crap going on with other thing. Like I basicaly lost the only guy in my life who has ever been a father to me and no one will tell me why.

So it could not have happened at a worse time.

its okay soap, you'll find someone better. Or for now atleast not have to worry about her stringing you along anymore.

Thanks guys. It still sucks, and hurts like hell. But hopefully I can get better soon.
We're still friends on Facebook, but I kind of made myself appear offline and I am debating on putting her on limited profile or whatever thats called.

But the thing that hurts the most, is we have been friends for years. And I am afraid of never talking to her again.

Try to keep up the friendship, then if you want to stay friends with her, just try talking to her again like everything is normal. You may be able to keep it still!

Im probably going to wait a few weeks before I try talking to her again. Right now, I am just...too depressed and hurt to.

*hugs soap*

there there, itll be alright buddy. you'll find a better girl.

Master Shake wrote:Im probably going to wait a few weeks before I try talking to her again. Right now, I am just...too depressed and hurt to.

I was friends with my ex for 3 years, then we were together for 5. I went like a couple days before talking to her again. I don't know how long you and her were friends for, but for me it was a bit rough because being 27, and knowing and being good friends or more with someone for 8 years is a lot.

It was close to that long

Okay, so I have been at The Doctor's house for a good week now. And tonight we were watching Tv and he was texting then he tells me "Hey, Jill is coming over tomorrow 1 to 3".

Now I know I can't say anything, because they were friends like a year or two onger then me and her were. So what should I do. I am not going home for a few days. So I can't just go to my house.

But what should I do? Just sit downstairs with them and just not say anythig the whole time? Stay up stairs playing games or just being alone? Or just leave and go walk around town, get some food, maybe go hang out at my work for a few hours until she leaves?

I don't know. I mean, if she didn't know I was here, I would just leave before she gets here. But she knows I am here, and is coming over anyways. I want to mend our relationship and be friends at least. But after what she put me through, I am just not ready to see her or talk to her.
And even though I am angry and ticked at her, I still don't want to do something tomorrow that will hurt or offend her.

I say walk around town if you want to still be friends.

*hugs soap*

it will get better with time bro

If you still want to salvage any kind of friendship, the sooner you talk to her as a friend, the better. The longer that void between you two is there, the more she's going to take that as a bad sign and want to cut all ties with you. I would just hang out with the two of them. Act like you're alright, even if you're not. Don't let her drive you away from where you want to be or what you want to do just because she's going to be showing up. Always be true to yourself first, then worry about dealing with her.

i went to my best friends house 3 weeks after getting rejected and turning into a wreck. i thought it would be incredibly awkward.

she jumped into my arms and started crying since she missed me . we are best friends still after 4 years.
keep your chin up soap

Dude, either leave them alone or ask him not to hang with her (i dont mean forever, just then). If he's a true bro, he'll understand. otherwise, just remove yourself from the equation.

Ok, so shes not coming over today since shes recovering from being Sick.

But I can't ask him not to have her come over or anything. Or atleast feel guilty about it. He goes back to school Tuesday, so its not fair to him if I do that. They have been friends longer then I have