Well we should at least aim to balance teams.
A full team of SeC/GFQ vs. randoms is just ridiculous. We steamroll them all the time.
Think if you had a bunch of randoms on both teams, but each team had a squad of four SeC/GFQ players. That would make it a lot more interesting.
Anyway, I have no problem squadding up and beating the shit out of some randoms. But when you've got more than four, it gets to be a headache, and everyone's just competing for kills and it's too easy.
As for people copying you Bob, if you think about it, you're probably just looking at it all skewed. You've probably noticed people shotty sniping or using the AEK simply because that's what you're doing. There's no way of telling they weren't doing that in the first place. If you had been using the T-88 S, you might think the same about that weapon, for example (I'm always surprised when someone kills me with one).
Also, people have been playing this game for quite some time. You moved onto the AEK because you felt like trying a new weapon, right? I'm finally using the AUG because I got tired of using the Abakan.
It's all put in the game by the devs, and there's a limited number of combinations for a kit, so you shouldn't be surprised when someone might be using a weapon and kit similar to yours. There's no way that anyone out there is using a unique kit (besides those devs w/ 4x scoped M14s).
I don't know; I think there's all sorts of logical explanations for it, but people copying you is just the wrong conclusion to jump to.
TL;DR - Don't worry about it, buddy.