*sigh*

So, if you guys remember the girl I like, Lauren, and my "friend" Dalton asking her out knowing I liked her, well they broke up a few weeks ago, and I'm thinking of asking her out, but I'm really no good at it, and having zero experience doesn't help. And I don't know if she likes me in the same way. Idk Im kinda lost right now.

Just ask. Seriously, it's just that simple. "hey you want to go a movie" or something. Easy! Just do it and don't act like a weenie when you do it =P

Ya i know it's as easy as that, it's just that I'm so damn shy. I just can't work up the courage to ask. She plays softball, and her games start next week, so I think I might go watch her play.

Gonna go creepy stalker style huh? Haha.

I know it's scary, but if you don't do it, someone else will! Just like before. And each time you ask, it gets easier.

Ha ya. I think since the one time I asked someone, I got rejected. Not to good for my confidence.

It happens. Don't take it too hard. Just try again, you know, with someone different.

Well that's what I'm doing.

Would it be bad if I asked her out over text?

The thing is, I never really see her in person. And that's how I would want to ask her, since that seems more...right I guess. Idk.

Ya, this is the first year I haven't had a class with her, and I'm only at our school for 4 periods, since I'm at a career school the first 3. And I don't see her after school cause she has softball practice.

I thought about asking her out while talking on xbox, but that just seemed dumb.

You've gotta do it in person man. Don't even consider anything else. Find a way to do it. Just tell yourself you're going to do it, find her, and do it.

Ya I know. It's just finding a time when I see her.

Do it ASAP. Not that I have much experience, but when I asked a girl to homecoming this year, I got rejected because I took too long trying to remember where I put my testicles and she got asked right before I did.

Ya. Whenever we go back to school(yet another snowday)I am giving her a cd for her to borrow. Maybe ask her to a movie or something then?

Ah, was that darkness chick you were in a party with? How cute.

Just ask her out dude, go see a movie with her or something, test the waters. If the feelings not mutual, then just move on, no one will think any of less of you.

Alright, I think next time I see her, I will ask her if she wants to see a movie sometime.

Dark! Here is what I did once with a friend I wanted to date.

I bought 1 yellow rose, and 1 red rose. We where alone and when she was sitting I made my move. I got my roses and walked up behind her. I reached around gave her the yellow rose and said I valued our friendship and that this representd how much I care for her, then I reached around and gave her the red rose and said that I wanted to care for her even more and wanted to take our relationship to a new level....... Those where not the exact words as this was like 15 years ago.... but this is a good romantic things that woman love!!!!!! Might be worth a try.

Hmm. Thanks for advice, but I doubt I would be able to do something like that.

Shit! If I can do it you can do it! I was just a skinny akward kid in those days. THats why I walked from behind so she couldn;t see my nervousness.

Ha, that's pretty much how I am.

The roses help distract her focus away from you being nervous.... but it was just a thought. Worked for me so I thought I'd give you the idea.

O and not only did we date, we got married and had babies and have been married for 11 years.

Start off simple. Ask here to "hangout" some time. Just the two of you, so that way it doesn't have to be a date. Let her determine if she wants to be with ya or not.

DON'T not ask!! you'll regret not asking and always wonder "what if i had just asked".

I asked the hottest/most popular girl to prom my senior year. She would've said yes but a couple days after her saying "lemme think about it" her ex-boyfriend decided to take her.

Did i go to my prom NOPE!! i worked that night at my part-time gas station attended job.... UGH!! was i glad i atleast asked. YOUR DAMN RIGHT!!!

Ha DL, I guess it works. But I doubt I could pull it off.

Like It was discussed earlier, I shouldn't do by text/facebook ect. stuff like that, but I hardly see her in person.

whenever you DO see her in person mention hanging out and going to do something fun together. not a movie and not dinner! something active!

dinner and movies are for romance and talking only. activities get ya laughing and joking around! show her you have a sense of humor! woman love a sense of humor. If she doesn't she ain't worth it....

But there is nothing to do in our town. It's lame.

that sucks! no mini golf or bowling or arcades or go-karts?

Either way dark ask her out.. DO IT!!! a no answer is better than twisting your own nipples off later cause you said nothing... LMAO

Well we have a place with mini golf and other stuff, but it's kinda expensive. And we have a bowling alley, but i don't really like bowling, but that's not really the point.

money is irrelevant my young friend!! if you like the girl you'll be broke and happy to be with her....

Unless she's a crazy bitch like my last gf and mind fucks you all the time!!

errhmmm anyway!

I like active dates! Too bad they dismantled the mini golf in our area. I love me some mini-golf.

DL's cheeesy! <3

Yes, in person is best Darky. Ask after her game if you're going, or when you give her that CD. There has to be something you guys can do. Even if it's playing at the playground or those things they have a BK and McDs haha.

....What?! I like playgrounds ok!

HAHA I'm cheesy but put yourself in my now wifes place.... Don;t tell me you wouldn;t have loved what I did!!!!! You know you gals love that shit!

PLAYGROUNDS FTW their the shizz!!

Gimme some tire swing or suspension bridge,,, shit even da monkey bars!! sheep we would make a great 1st date couple!!

Hell yeah Taters! My friend used to live right by our old elementary school, so we would go to the playground there ALL the time up until a couple years ago. It's funny the looks you get as a twenty year old squealing on the swings. Haha. So many memories there!

DL, it is sweet. Flowers make me sad though, because they die.

Thanks for that heart warming thought there Sheeps.

Playgrounds are alot of fun.. untill you play tag then someone smashes their face on something or you slip in fall in teh stones!!! arghh pain... but then you start laughing again alll bloody and stuff.

Haha, sorry DL! It was very cute though, and it obviously worked since you got to keep Betty Bakes Awesome Cakes.

Oooh yeah Taters. We had these over-under bars, and I remember getting me a powerful crotch shot on one of those. Ouch! Hell, I might have been a boy until that happened.

lmao yeah sheep.. Woman love that "cheesy" crap they so claim they dislike if they didn't like it then why does it work???

It can be hard but i always figured it this way.. if you don't ask you always feel like something is eating away at your stomach (or atleast i did). And it doesn't go away till you ask so minus well get it over with right away i mean if you've known her for a long time it should be no problem.

Once shooting hoops at a playground a friend took his shirt off. He had his nipples pierced.....Got pushed into the chainlink fence....ring got caught........ripped right off....blood.....Ugg it was nasty!!!!!!!!

lol my brother has his pierced and holy shit that sounds nasty... did the nipple come off?

We're talking about play grounds....... HOW did bloody nipples come into the conversation??? LMFAO WTF LOL

It happened at a playground.... you mentioned someone getting hurt and there being blood..... Reminded me of the bloody nipple story.

How could nipples not get into the conversation?!

+1 for nipple piercings. On guys.

LOL ok DL i guess so....

and WOW sheep really!! i think a nipple piercing on a guy is ummm well idk...

no piercings on the DL eva! Tis law!

Haha. I like them, and lip piercings on guys too. However, I have never dated a guy with either of these. Strange eh? I did hang out with a guy who had his nips done, but he moved away before we could graduate to dating. He smelled so good.

Dark there is one key to women. "confidence" it doesn't even have to be real confidence! I just fake it and make it fun and funny and it works great. but try to show some confidence and this chick will melt in your arms.

confidence yes. sense of humor yes. polite yes. a gentlemen (there aren't many anymore) DEFINITELY YES!!

Wheneve i open a door for a lady or say after you i always 100% of the time get a smile and WOW THANKYOU!!

Man i wish i was single sometimes....not really

yes I pride myself on being a gentleman. It's what sorta serperates me from the pack. there are soooo few around anymore that being one of the few gets you noticed pretty quick

+1 for being a gentlemen!!

Holding the door for you lady, opening the car door for her so she can get in and closing it for her. Walking on the outside of the side walk so if a car comes you get hit not her. Taking her jacket for her at restaurants and skootch (spelling?) her seat in for her... the list goes on and on. I'm 28 and i do these things.

I laugh seeing younger guys than me out with their gf's now. the guy walks in teh door first and doesn't hold it for her. or he gets in the car first and doesn't help her. He orders his meal first despite her not being ready. SHIT MAKES ME LAUGH!!!