*sigh*

I don't like it when my boyfriend closes the car door for me. I'm always afraid he's going to hit me with it haha. He never has, but still. The fear is there! Probably because I've shut myself in the car door before.

My boyo does all these things, except push my chair in, but then again, we usually eat in booths, because I like those better than real chairs lol.

Also, carrying your girlfriend when she gets tired of walking is nice too....

sheep wrote:

Also, carrying your girlfriend when she gets tired of walking is nice too....

your whack girl

I believe the proper term is "spoiled" DL. Or... spoiled rotten.

HA you woulda reached my limit. I'll do the door thing, but if someone I was dating looked at me and said I;m tired of walking carry me........well that would fly in DL's book.

It was his idea! Mainly it's piggy back rides. But I'll get carried to be too. He likes doing. I think because he gets to play the big strong man card. Cracks me up. <3

I aint carrying my gf's phat ass across no parking lot cause she's tired!! i've done this before sadly after eating and almost barfed as she hopped on and her knee caught me in the side!

I almost re-tasted my 5 cheese ziti that day!

Well, I have the whole gentelman thing. But not confidence, which is what matters right now. But I will ask.

awesome cred awarded just for asking!! the confidence comes with time. most guys that seem confident are more or less cocky and insecure... their confidence in highschool is a joke. You gain confidence with experience! any highschool kid that seems confident usually isn't he's hiding some weakness!

whether you actually HAVE confidence is irrelevant, what is important is that you LOOK confident.

being confident is great, but if you act confident it'll be easier for you to get actually confident just go for it and jump in.

p.s) dont miss the boat. i had a really great girl who liked me, but i wasnt confident enough to ask her out and someone else did. dont let that happen

Yes just by asking her that shows your confident enough. other things will fall in line.

Have some kinda game plan. don't walk up expecting rejection, if you do and she says YES then your fucked!! cause you expected to get turned down and now you've got nothing to say!

Either way good luck bud! head up shoulders back and walk like a pimp.... no wait don't do that last part...

Go Dark!!!!!!!! I be cheering fo ya bro!

Hey don't beat yourself up too much silent. I took the biggest leap of faith, and actually went to meet a girl I met online YEARS ago in california, had a good time, but she's the shy shut in type, and it sadly didn't work out.

Did it hurt? Shit yeah, I even told her I was ok with just being friends if she didn't like me in that fashion, but she's pretty much cut off all contact with me sadly.

Point is, rejection is just something you'll have to accept, I was rejected on the spot back when I confessed to a girl I liked back in high school. Girls like a man that is bold enough to take action (at least the ones I know do), I was and for the most part very much like you. Back in school I was the shy meek guy who didn't dare ask a girl out due to fear of rejection or simply thinking I'm not good enough. I graduated, and finally got fed up with it and tried to change.

Some tips, if you're not doing this already. If you slouch, stand up straight, if you're chronically interested in your shoe laces, stop it, look forward where ever you go.I am by no means an expert in psychiatry, but you have to be accept that you are who you are, and if said girl can't appreciate that, then you deserve better IMO.

Good luck man, I'll be rooting for ya.

Artimise Flare wrote:Hey don't beat yourself up too much silent. I took the biggest leap of faith, and actually went to meet a girl I met online YEARS ago in california, had a good time, but she's the shy shut in type, and it sadly didn't work out.

Did it hurt? Shit yeah, I even told her I was ok with just being friends if she didn't like me in that fashion, but she's pretty much cut off all contact with me sadly.

Point is, rejection is just something you'll have to accept, I was rejected on the spot back when I confessed to a girl I liked back in high school. Girls like a man that is bold enough to take action (at least the ones I know do), I was and for the most part very much like you. Back in school I was the shy meek guy who didn't dare ask a girl out due to fear of rejection or simply thinking I'm not good enough. I graduated, and finally got fed up with it and tried to change.

Some tips, if you're not doing this already. If you slouch, stand up straight, if you're chronically interested in your shoe laces, stop it, look forward where ever you go.I am by no means an expert in psychiatry, but you have to be accept that you are who you are, and if said girl can't appreciate that, then you deserve better IMO.

Good luck man, I'll be rooting for ya.

Yesssss.

We give such great advice here!

WHO NEEDS A DATING SERVICE...

YOU GOT THE SEC!!

Ha thanks guys.

Here's an idea, ask her out to a movie, but make it something that your friends and some of hers might enjoy. This way it doesn't seem very date like, and more of a night on the town just having fun. Group activities are great ways to try and help break the ice IMO, people seem to open up more and are more comfortable when there are people they know are with them. Especially when they're around people they don't know well. Start off as friends first if anything, ask her out to lunch every once in a while, if you have the same classes, offer to study with her. Communication is the biggest part. Sometimes the best relationships come out of wonderful friendships.

Its always best to at least ask, otherwise your going to chew your self up with the "what if" question all the time. Who knows, maybe she actually likes you. Trust me, girls at my high school never made it easy for you to just come up and say hi. 90% of them had their nose so high up in the air it makes you wonder how they could see where they were going.

I was shot down twice pretty much, and while it still hurts a little to think about it (I really liked this girl in Cali, she was practically everything I was looking for in a girl) I'm glad I at least took the chance. If I hadn't, I'd still be wondering what would have happened if I had asked.

Well I have been friends with her since 8th grade, when she started dating my best friend. We talked pretty often(we would all play gears of war ha)and last year, I got to know her a lot better, since we had English together and sat by each other and all.

And kinda and odd coincidence, she posted on facebook(whatever), 'the key to change...is to let go of fear'. Idk but to me, it seems right at the moment.

Well then there you go. Have at it man, again, confidence is something most women look for in a man. I am not perfect either, and still get a little hesitant to talk to a girl I don't know but think she's attractive, but I try, and that's what matters.

So jump up and take action man, the whats the worst she can say? No, lets just be friends?

As said, with the risk comes the possibility of being rejected, at the very most, voice your feelings to her, tell her you're interested in her. Who knows, if she didn't notice you before, by simply saying that, she may become conscious of you in a different way

Ha ya. I think I will ask her whenever I let her borrow my cd.

Thatta boy! Go get em tiger!

Haha.

Btw, when did I get another AC?

just now

go get em.

*walks in*
*reads first posts*
*skips to page 4*

I was hoping that something had happened...

Ha, I need stuff to start a conversation with her. Something interesting. We have ran outta stuff the talk about.

How often do you see her? Every day at school I assume?

No, I never see her at school.

Yes, we have talked about that frost.

Artimise Flare wrote:Hey don't beat yourself up too much silent. I took the biggest leap of faith, and actually went to meet a girl I met online YEARS ago in california, had a good time, but she's the shy shut in type, and it sadly didn't work out.

Did it hurt? Shit yeah, I even told her I was ok with just being friends if she didn't like me in that fashion, but she's pretty much cut off all contact with me sadly.

Point is, rejection is just something you'll have to accept, I was rejected on the spot back when I confessed to a girl I liked back in high school. Girls like a man that is bold enough to take action (at least the ones I know do), I was and for the most part very much like you. Back in school I was the shy meek guy who didn't dare ask a girl out due to fear of rejection or simply thinking I'm not good enough. I graduated, and finally got fed up with it and tried to change.

Some tips, if you're not doing this already. If you slouch, stand up straight, if you're chronically interested in your shoe laces, stop it, look forward where ever you go.I am by no means an expert in psychiatry, but you have to be accept that you are who you are, and if said girl can't appreciate that, then you deserve better IMO.

Good luck man, I'll be rooting for ya.

Great advice. Recently started changing some small little things about myself like these and it's crazy how much different girls I don't know treat me now.

Hmm, I might give it a try.

It really is funny how simple things like that can make a difference. Dressing better and taking care of yourself also helps a lot. Now I don't go nuts with fashion, but knowing some very basics about color coordinating really helps. Darks and lights that go well with each other for example. Blue and white shirt with jeans and a blue hat, there, that wasn't so hard was it?

Sadly most people judge people by how they look and presentation is apart of the game when trying to get to know someone. While you don't have to be the macho jock guy, not many girls will be interested in the guy who has holes in his shirt with grease stains here and there and a bed head. Does that sound shallow? Yes, but lets face it, all of us would love to have at least a semi attractive partner wouldn't we?

But yes, Standing up straight and looking forward generally gives a person the impression of someone with strong will or confidence, and someone well groomed only helps that image, secondly, if you shake someones hand, make it FIRM, I hate it when people give me the fucking wet noodle handshakes.

But don't take my word for it, like I said, I'm not an expert or anything ;P

Well, most my shirts are black, and since it's cold, I'm usually wearing a hoodie and jeans.

I'm not too experienced, but I think it would be best if you try your best to avoid mumbling at all. I don't know if it will be best if you just go with "hey wanna go do X?" instead of "Hey... uh you wanna maybe go do X?". Would definitely make it seem more to her like it's just a date and not a huge deal.

That's a good thing to mention axcelot, this is something I tend to have an issue with, but it's more so that I'm just very soft spoken. Speaking clearly is something that helps create the image of someone who is confident in themselves as well.

I try not to mumble when I talk, but I do a lot, not always meaning to. But im not as bad anymore at it.

Okay, I haven't read a thing. But just write her a love letter in spanish Dark. She'll love it! You know, the whole thing about a foreign language even if they don't understand it gets girl on fire.

Or maybe she will laugh, I dunno. But good luck, it should be easy. Just ask her out like you would a friend.

But she is in Spanish also, so she could understand most of it.

Do this shit...... NOWWWWW You gots the snow snow right? GO sledding with the gal!!!!! O yea! SNuggle up tight!

We live across town from each other. And the roads are really icy.

Then you risk danger to see her! Do it NOW!!!!! See the womans I say! You will enjoy talking to her more than being here talking to me....


Or you could stay and I can tell you about the hair growing out of my nose.

That's quite disturbing.

Yes it is.... so call your womans and tell he you want to hang with her.

So the plan I have for my nose hair is to get it to grow long and I'll braid it....... You need more details or are you calling her?

I doubt she's even awake.

Hmmmmmmm I'll give you that then....... I forgot its early in your neck ot the USA........ I'll give you a few hours before I start buging you again then.

It's 9, but since we haven't had school, she probably is sleeping in.

Maybe she's thinking about asking out that guy that lives on the other side of town?


I can tell you some disgusting stories too, Dark. You know, for entertainment purposes.

Go for it ars.

Shes up now!!!!!!!! Call her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


New topic..... ear wax!

I just watched a movie on Netflix with her. But now we both have chores to do.

yay for movies to the max!

PLEASE tell me you did the cheesy arm snuggle thing. much AC for the cheesy arm slip