DAMMIT! DAMMIT! DAMMIT!!. I got to hang out with the girl I liked today, and couldn't muster up the balls to say anything.

She literally left 5 minutes ago, and I walked with her out to her car and the whole time planned on saying something. But just gave her a hug, said goodbye and let her get into her car.

I know she likes me, so why can't I say anything!?

I've had that happen a few times, but later on I had mustered up enough courage to ask.

Seriously, I was working all day for it too.

Then as I was walking her to her car I just kept telling myself I would say something.

Then all I did was give her a hug and say bye.

Seriously, she told my best friend she likes me. Why is this so difficult.

And now it'll eat at you till you do, congratulations.

I know. I feel like shit now.

I don't know when I will see her again, that was the reason I planned on telling her today.

I refuse to tell her over the phone or facebook, so now I will feel like shit for a few days.

Wait....



Wait wait wait....

Soap. I was coming in here to have a super high ratings cosby show moment with you..
but then you say that you know she like you and have second hand proof.

I am dis a point.

What were you gonna say? It does take guts to speak up sometimes.

Im the exact same...

i can flirt but not much more.

Get to your car/ten speed, go to her.... and tell her.

Get to your car/ten speed, go to her.... and tell her.

Such profound words of wisdom it neededto be said twice.

Epyk wrote:Get to your car/ten speed, go to her.... and tell her.

In the true crappy highschool romance movie way +1.

I can't even flirt, its pathetic.

I have never ever told a girl the way I feel, so I can see why I was having a hard time.

But what makes me feel more like crap is that even a few weeks ago she told my friend that she didn't even believe I could make the first move, just because of how I am.

Epyk wrote:Get to your car/ten speed, go to her.... and tell her.

If I had my license I fucking would.

Son...steal your neighbors mountain bike.

Perverted Pony wrote:

Epyk wrote:Get to your car/ten speed, go to her.... and tell her.

If I had my license I fucking would.

Don't worry whats the chances of getting stopped? THIS IS AN EMERGENCY FIRE THAT ENGINE UP. Take a risk!

*Do it, do it, do it, do it, do it.*

Who would expect that?!

Guh.....as soon as Hot Fuzz is over. I am taking out my anger on BC2.

Don't break the disk. What did BC2 ever do to you?

He's given up epyk... Our words were for nothing.

Dont be afraid of girls Soap.Sounds simple but seriously,theres nothing to be scared about.Girls love confidence and if one does turn you down,just move on,no big deal.

I am not giving up guys, I will tell her the next time I see her. But damn I feel so bad right now

When's the next time you see her. I need a date, local time and an itinerary.

No idea. The only reason I saw her today was because I was off work, and over at a friends house, and she wasn't doing anything.

SO I have no idea

I want access to the staff room now.

Pfft i remember what i said to my gf when i told her i liked her... It's pretty ridculious when you find out how easy it is and non-scary.

How did you tell her?

Its kind of thrilling once you actually do it though.

Im kinda mad too... Hot german foreign exchange student at my school thats staying with my friend (whos a girl) isnt in any of the same classes as me...



/blogeasy

Zillah wrote:Its kind of thrilling once you actually do it though.

Im kinda mad too... Hot german foreign exchange student at my school thats staying with my friend (whos a girl) isnt in any of the same classes as me...



/blogeasy

A stay in huh? Man you should try to get a sleep over going.

Oh frost.

I dont getit

insider

<_<

I think next year ill sign up to host an exchange student... Yess...

Perverted Pony wrote:How did you tell her?

How did i tell her? Well i met her on a game online as pathetic as that sounds i've known her for a year prior to me telling her that i like her. I've now known her for over 3 years.I've never thought of her as more than a friend which is kinda odd because she's super hawt... But we started to know each other a little better she'd always give me comments about how mature sweet and generious i am and such etc etc. So one day i told her, now this might not be exactly what i said but it's near it.



"(insert crappy joke here) Hey i've gotta tell you something and it's going to keep eating me up untill i do. I like you more than i should and i just want you to know that. I am fine if you don't feel the same way but, i just felt like i had to say that. You are one of the nicest people i've ever met."

Zillah wrote:insider

<_<

I think next year ill sign up to host an exchange student... Yess...

Wouldn't your parents have to agree to that?

I just, kinda started going out with my girlfriend one day.



Eventually it was just obvious, so there wasn't really a "Hey, wanna go out with me?".

But just say that, it's not so hard.

If your having trouble talking to girls, soap, get someone to pay you to. My friend said he'd paid me 3 bucks to talk to a bunch of fat chicks at the mall today, and im now 3 bucks richer.

Khfan60 wrote:If your having trouble talking to girls, soap, get someone to pay you to. My friend said he'd paid me 3 bucks to talk to a bunch of fat chicks at the mall today, and im now 3 bucks richer.

OK first off. ^ This is win personified. AC for you sir.



Next, Soap. My greatest advice to you is this. Fake it until you make it. Find some confidence in yourself and show it off, and if your not confident about it just fake it. Women eat up confidence, its like some sort of crazy spanish fly, they can't resist. Either way man I would just up and say to her. "Hey listen, I like you, and I would like to take you out sometime." Or some variation of that. I know you kids these days have your own fancy lingo and whatnot.

Thats the thing. I have never been in a relationship, so I don't know what would happen after the whole "Hey, I like you" moment.

Its actually not that I don't know what would happen afterwards.

Its that I am more afraid of what will.

Like I said, I have never been in a relationship, and I am just terrified that I might not be a great boyfriend, or I will screw things up.


Which is what scares me the most, we are really good friends, and what happens if we break up or anything?
I have seen my friend(the one that I have talked about a few times here with his relationships)and I have seen what has happened to him and his friends when they started dating.

2 dont talk to him anymore, and one outright wants him dead.
So I am just afriad of our friendship turning out like that if I tell her.

Perverted Pony wrote:Its actually not that I don't know what would happen afterwards.

Its that I am more afraid of what will.

Like I said, I have never been in a relationship, and I am just terrified that I might not be a great boyfriend, or I will screw things up.


Which is what scares me the most, we are really good friends, and what happens if we break up or anything?
I have seen my friend(the one that I have talked about a few times here with his relationships)and I have seen what has happened to him and his friends when they started dating.

2 dont talk to him anymore, and one outright wants him dead.
So I am just afriad of our friendship turning out like that if I tell her.

Shit happens dude. Maybe it will turn out okay, maybe it won't. You only learn what to and what not to do from experience.

Just try not to do anything...stupid.

The best advice I can say is be yourself. Men get stupid and I mean REALLY stupid when they like a girl.

Take me for example, the first girl that I really really liked (which sadly it didn't work out) I liked her for seven YEARS, and couldn't muster up the courage to tell her until sometime in the summer of 2010. Turns out she liked me too but didn't have the courage to confess her feelings either, so what did I do? After learning that I started talking to her... A LOT and finally decided to fly out to see her in California. Had a great time, but here's the part were the whole "Men get REALLY stupid when they like a girl"

She's the severely shy type, in fact she was diagnosed with social anxiety after her dad passed away at age 7, so what do I do in all my glorious wisdom? I ask her if she'd be my girlfriend, mind you this is the FIRST time she's seen me in real life, and out of sheer excitement in finding we share nearly identical interests I jump the gun and scare her away (so to speak).

Point is, don't get over excited, don't even try to play it cool. Be confident in the fact that you know she likes you and that you do too. The absolute worse thing that could happen is she says "no" or "I want to stay friends", you move on afterwards.

It's easier said than done I know, but you know what, you have all the power to change how you look at life and yourself. I for the longest time thought I wasn't worth two cents compared to any other guy, and I finally got fed up with it. I started working out, and changing the way I dressed (I'm Japanese/Thai an 5'3" I look about 6-7 years younger than I really am, so I'm at a major disadvantage compared to all the "suave" prince charming types who are 6'+ with faces that look like they're carved by angels). I'm way more confident than I was back in High school, it's perspective and liking who you are.

If you don't like who you are, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT is all I can suggest to you. I'm not trying to be a prick, and I'm not trying to put you down or say you even need to change yourself. However, if there is one thing I know about most women, is that they want a strong guy, they want to know that they can depend of you if the crap hits the fan, and that starts with confidence in yourself as others have said before. She likes you because you're YOU, as long as you don't try to do anything extreme you'll be fine. If you don't ask her out because you're too afraid of "What if we break up and hate each other" you'll keep on eating yourself up with the "What if" questions. Take a risk, and you may just find your future wife or something.

So put on those Chuck Norris boots and go sweep her off her feet damn it! I have full confidence that you can do exactly that.

Soap, it's easier saying it in your head than out loud to the girl. It's natural to not say anything because your either nervous or sometimes you just won't and you can't explain the feeling. And it's best to not do it over the phone or facebook although I kinda screwed that one up even though I said I wouldn't but I didn't want to lose the last opportunity for 3 months and just went for it.

It just requires time.

Also if you're worried about not being a great boyfriend, don't. It's easier to learn from other peoples mistakes since people get together and break up pretty damn quickly sometimes, maybe you can mention how it is afterwards if you feel like it. You need some confidence in yourself or you will do exactly what you fear which is bad.

Just blurt it out.

I like you.

I like Greg's idea. It isn't easy to put yourself out like htat but I think its the best way to go.



Either way, good luck Soap! knock it outta the park!...... if you know what I mean