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DAMMIT! DAMMIT! DAMMIT!!. I got to hang out with the girl I liked today, and couldn't muster up the balls to say anything.

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Zillah

Zillah

chunckylover53 wrote:
Perverted Pony wrote:If I had the damn courage I would. I am going to tell her, no fucking doubt about that.

I just wish I was as outgoing in real life as I am in LIVE. That would make it so much easier.

I swear, if all of us from the SeC got together and hung out I would probably be the most quiet one out of everyone. Thats just who I am.



I would take my shirt off then tackle Zillah and Milk, in that order too.

DAMMIT! DAMMIT! DAMMIT!!. I got to hang out with the girl I liked today, and couldn't muster up the balls to say anything.  - Page 3 Spidergun1

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

Im a fucking coward. All I can say.....

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

I tried so hard. But I just couldn't do it.

Now I feel like shit, and crap mixed together in a bowl with a sprinkle of Kirby and Lead seasoning.

Artimise Flare

Artimise Flare

Keep on trying man, you'll get it. I can't say I don't understand you though, I went through exactly what you're going through right now. Minus the fact of having the knowledge that the girl liked me as well.

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

I am talking with her on Facebook right now, but I can't bring myself to tell her over Facebook. I am tempted to say something along the lines of

"When do you think we will hang out again?" Then if she asks why or anything just say that there was something I wanted to tell her but couldn't do it.

Or something I don't know, all I know is these past two days have been hell.

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

Also, you know I am in a bad mood when I have Creedence Clearwater Revival playing, and I am tossing one of my daggers. I am doing both, and neither is helping. And my right hand now hurts..

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

But your not fortunate son youve probally never seen the rain Very Happy


Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

PAH! +1 AC for that, made me laugh a lil. then I just felt like shit again.

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

Well, I accidentally mentioned something about how I am feeling right now to her. And she asked if I wanted to talk about it. At first I said no, but then I just messaged her back telling her yes, because it was about her.

Then told her that I had been trying to tell her for a few days now that I liked her but couldn't muster the courage to say anything.
Then just right out said that I liked her.

Several seconds go by and she(this whole time I am shaking horribly)messages me back and says "Its about time!"

Artimise Flare

Artimise Flare

Lol, congrats man, not exactly according to plan but hey, at least you told her one way or another Smile

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

I feel a lot more relieved now though I can say that.

And she isn't mad that I said it over the internet either. Which really surprised me.

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

>_>
Hey, I Did it okay. Not how I wanted too, but I still did....and I feel so much better now.

Artimise Flare

Artimise Flare

In a way, it doesn't matter how you confess your feelings so long as you tell them. Now breaking up with someone, that's an entirely different story.

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

Artimise Flare wrote:In a way, it doesn't matter how you confess your feelings so long as you tell them. Now breaking up with someone, that's an entirely different story.

Can you send a brick through someones window with Facebook?

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

Tie a brick to a laptop and then throw it?

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

The london riots brought to you by Facebook Very Happy

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

Okay, so now we are going to try and meet Friday then go out and hang somewhere.

I am so glad I finally said something though. I feel.....so much lighter.

Artimise Flare

Artimise Flare

Frostbyrn wrote:
Artimise Flare wrote:In a way, it doesn't matter how you confess your feelings so long as you tell them. Now breaking up with someone, that's an entirely different story.

Can you send a brick through someones window with Facebook?

Don't get me wrong Frost, I agree that such things should be said face to face if you can. But ultimately, it's the confession that counts and not the means it's done in. If the person likes you, but then decides to get angry at you for confessing your feelings over the internet, it's a sign of pettiness and that is not exactly a great trait for a relationship. I don't know, even when I thought I was a no body in school I built up the courage to tell a girl I liked her and was instantly shot down, didn't stop me from asking another girl later (Though it took me a long time to do so). Some people are just not as sociable in real life, and I can respect that, the end result is the same at least in Soaps situation. It certainly helped that he knew that she liked him, I know if I was in his shoes though, I'd be all over that in a heart beat, especially if I liked her as well and knew her as long as he did.

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

Artimise Flare wrote:
Frostbyrn wrote:
Artimise Flare wrote:In a way, it doesn't matter how you confess your feelings so long as you tell them. Now breaking up with someone, that's an entirely different story.

Can you send a brick through someones window with Facebook?

Don't get me wrong Frost, I agree that such things should be said face to face if you can. But ultimately, it's the confession that counts and not the means it's done in. If the person likes you, but then decides to get angry at you for confessing your feelings over the internet, it's a sign of pettiness and that is not exactly a great trait for a relationship. I don't know, even when I thought I was a no body in school I built up the courage to tell a girl I liked her and was instantly shot down, didn't stop me from asking another girl later (Though it took me a long time to do so). Some people are just not as sociable in real life, and I can respect that, the end result is the same at least in Soaps situation. It certainly helped that he knew that she liked him, I know if I was in his shoes though, I'd be all over that in a heart beat, especially if I liked her as well and knew her as long as he did.

Stop taking me seriously! Very Happy

I was just trying to set up a london riots joke Very Happy

Wacco



The first thing I learned at the SeC was not to take a word Frost says seriously.

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

I just learned to not take Frost seriously. I am still trying to learn the same thing about GM, but thats a bit harder.

Artimise Flare

Artimise Flare

I don't think I've posted here enough to really have picked up on that. Oh well, live and learn lol.

Frostbyrn

Frostbyrn

Yeah one of the big problems is that 99% of my jokes are light hearted and dont have any hidden meaning

But some people read too much into them and see it as malicious humor or me being serious

The Adli Corporation

The Adli Corporation

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!



*ahem*

Embarassed

*gives soap a manly thump on the back*

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

Were supposed to go and hang out on Friday just us two. So I am both very nervous, but excited about that.

asdf

asdf

Good luck man.



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Artimise Flare

Artimise Flare

Act as you normally do, don't try to do anything crazy or out of the ordinary and you'll be fine. Remember, she likes you for who you are, changing the way you behave too much may become a major turn off.

I'm sure you'll do fine man, don't worry so much. Have fun with that man, and best of luck Very Happy

asdf

asdf

And remember: it's not rape if you say "surprise".

Artimise Flare

Artimise Flare

Bob Ross wrote:And remember: it's not rape if you say "surprise".

Oh you, stop, you'll scare the poor kid lol

asdf

asdf

Kid? He's 18. and I'm younger than him...

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

Bob Ross wrote:And remember: it's not rape if you say "surprise".

DAMMIT! DAMMIT! DAMMIT!!. I got to hang out with the girl I liked today, and couldn't muster up the balls to say anything.  - Page 3 2458268739

Artimise Flare

Artimise Flare

Bob Ross wrote:Kid? He's 18. and I'm younger than him...

Meant you type "guy"

Some times what I'm thinking doesn't seem to reach the keyboard. Maybe I do have a mild case of dyslexia.

Ante

Ante

Perverted Pony wrote:Well, I accidentally mentioned something about how I am feeling right now to her. And she asked if I wanted to talk about it. At first I said no, but then I just messaged her back telling her yes, because it was about her.

Then told her that I had been trying to tell her for a few days now that I liked her but couldn't muster the courage to say anything.
Then just right out said that I liked her.

Several seconds go by and she(this whole time I am shaking horribly)messages me back and says "Its about time!"


Oh shit yes!

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Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

Longest 30 seconds of my life man.

MADEWITHROBOTS

MADEWITHROBOTS

Good on ya, Soap! It's not an easy thing to do, but you'd have been kicking yourself if you hadn't.

A buddy of mine really liked a girl but could never bring himself to say anything, even though several of us thought she was sweet on him too, and that they'd be good together.

Long story short, she hooked up with someone else, and he was full of regret. It all came out in the open somehow, and she basically told him that if he'd made a move, it'd be him she was with and not this other dude.

It was rough for him, but you live, you learn and everyone moves on. Incidentally, they're real good friends now, but it took a while.

Best of luck dude, and like others have said - just be yourself. You may not feel particularly confident, but that's completely natural, and honestly - the hard part's done now, take it easy Cool

Dropped Da Soap

Dropped Da Soap

Yeah, I haven't talked to her since Last night. But I am about to start talking to her now. Still nervous bout everything, but I am glad I did tell her.

Artimise Flare

Artimise Flare

One other word of advice I can give to you, and this may sound awful. Don't be the only one contacting her everyday. Give her some space some times and if she wants to talk to you she'll contact you. Smothering her in attention may lead to problems down the road, so be sure to hang out and chat, but be careful not to over do it Wink.

Glad you finally told her, hope it's a lasting relationship!

Captain Pirate Pineapple

Captain Pirate Pineapple

Stifler wrote:Be safe, bring a condom.



Couldn't have said it better myself. Good thing they come in a big pack, because I'm running through mine quickly! Too many hoes, not enough nights.



Artimise Flare wrote:One other word of advice I can give to you, and this may sound awful. Don't be the only one contacting her everyday. Give her some space some times and if she wants to talk to you she'll contact you. Smothering her in attention may lead to problems down the road, so be sure to hang out and chat, but be careful not to over do it Wink.

Glad you finally told her, hope it's a lasting relationship!



This is also a great piece of advice. You don't want to seem like the creeper/stalker/desperate person. Contact her today, then if she doesn't respond, let her get in touch with you. It sucks waiting on the other person, but sometimes that's what has to happen to make things work. Trust me on that, I'm going through that right now. Waiting to see if I'm going to get hurt again, but at least it won't be as bad as I do have 5 other backups.

Stoop Kid

Stoop Kid

Hey bro, even if it doesn't work out between you two, consider yourself lucky. I was officially friend-zoned today.

The Adli Corporation

The Adli Corporation

Sugnod wrote:Hey bro, even if it doesn't work out between you two, consider yourself lucky. I was officially friend-zoned today.



ouch. i know the feeling. Sad

Captain Pirate Pineapple

Captain Pirate Pineapple

Sugnod wrote:Hey bro, even if it doesn't work out between you two, consider yourself lucky. I was officially friend-zoned today.

I'm working my way in and out of that too with one of them. Probably doesn't help that I slept with her friend/co-worker....

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